5 things i love right now

1. this song by habibi, "siin"



have you ever heard a song from years ago that you somehow missed back then, and you feel extremely upset and cheated that you lived without it for so long? a perfect example is this track, which i heard for the first time a few weeks ago on (where else?) WMBR's breakfast of champions. the lyrics are cheeky, but also pretty real and kinda dark and it just hits the spot for me, pun totally intended.

2. this new show, modern love 

it wouldn't be an exaggeration to say that i've read at least 100 new york times "modern love" essays. mostly because i love the column, and the rest because i was doing research on the tone and themes in preparation write my own a few years ago. the result was "standing at shows with boys," which was kindly rejected by daniel jones, the editor who still reads every single submission. it ended up finding a home at the bigger picture and the response i received was wonderful though, so it's all good...and i'm getting the itch to try again!

anyway, i also religiously listen to the podcast, so i'm just a big fan all around. for some reason, i was a little wary about watching the show because i wasn't sure how these beautiful essays would translate. but two minutes into the first episode and i was absolutely hooked. i'm the type of person who, for better or worse, knows if i like something (or someone) immediately—clothes, dates, houses, music, movies, and TV shows—and between the filming style and script, this show makes me feel so warm and fuzzy and happy. i'm three episodes in and i never want it to end! i've also cried at all of 'em.

as the NYT themselves put it, "modern love, when it works, provides the kind of soothing comfort supplied by an inviting armchair, a warm fire, or a mug of hot tea on a chilly night. it’s the TV equivalent of a hand-knit cardigan or an instagrammable latte; a mood of transitory wistfulness appears to be the goal, not some chest-thumping artistic statement about Life." my favorite type of art!

3. these combat boots i bought a couple weeks ago

i am not nor have i ever really been a shoe person. but, speaking of knowing immediately what i like, i literally fucking raaaaan at full speed to these across DSW upon spotting them and i've been wearing them pretty much every day since. i swear i've been waiting for them my entire life.

4. this insane house i walked by yesterday in portsmouth, NH that's for sale

i have absolutely no clue what's going on in here and i love it. only a cool $2.9 mil!



5.  this podcast, heavyweight

if you're a fan of reply all/this american life/mystery show-type podcasts, check this one out. half human interest, half mystery, host jonathan goldstein seeks to reconnect people with others from their past to find out what happened. my recent favorite was "becky and jo," about two sisters whose childhood babysitter suddenly disappeared one day and left them confused and worried.

favorites from "the deleted years" of music

i meant to write this post weeks ago when it was more relevant, but....life, man. last month, dave holmes wrote this interesting article about the period from 2003–2012 in music. more specifically, how the lack of streaming services like spotify and now-ancient technology of ipods have rendered so many of our favorite bands and songs from that time obsolete unless we happen to remember them.

fortunately, i'm like an elephant with this period of time in music and i will never forget any of my favorites. being able to listen to them again is another story, however. some of the original picks for this post (addison, yes dear, telecast, the sexy magazines) have nary a record of their mere existence, so i couldn't even feature them. i swear i didn't make them up! here are some of the best nearly-extinct remnants of the early aughts. may you find a new favorite song (because they still hold up), take a trip down memory lane, or both.
 
the colour

the colour is always the first group i think of when i think of the sound that defined this era in music. strokes-y, moody, slightly britpoppy, mod, and danceable. i must have listened to their EP hundreds of times back in the day and rediscovering it every so often brings back such specific and fond memories. so glad that someone uploaded it to youtube, because it’s not on spotify. “out and about” was my go-to jam back then, but i’m finding that i appreciate “mirror ball” more now. 

meneguar

i still have no clue how i ever even heard of this very short-lived brooklyn band, but it probably involved myspace stalking to some degree. their entire i was born at night EP is such a solid collection of melodic, raw, angular indie rock, with the above tune “house of cats” being my absolute favorite. 

the redwalls

proving once and for all that if it’s a retro-sounding band that involves brothers, i’ll *most likely* be onboard, the redwalls were a beatles-esque quartet from chicago i was deeply into for like six months. i recently had the brilliant idea to check and see if pitchfork ever reviewed their album, and sure enough, they gave 'em a very specific 3.6 and called them "60s pop fetishists." still slinging the same exact jabs 14 years later, eh? expand your fuckin’ vocab, ya nerds! this is my favorite track, but the whole album is a fun, lighthearted listen.

living things

also brothers! why these guys never made it big is still kinda baffling to me, but i probably listen to both this song and their other very minor hit, “bom bom bom,” at least once a week. straight-up, bad-ass, strutting rock ’n roll.

thunderbirds are now!

high-strung, mid-2000s dance rock at its finest. they also had some great song titles, including “better safe than safari” and “enough about me, let’s talk about me.” this song is a freaked-out treasure!

robbers on high street

so, this was the band that sounded a lot a lot A LOT like spoon. but, instead of launching into another one of my rants where i wonder for the 100th time why people absolutely lose their shit over derivative bands, i’ll just say (one more time for the snobs in the back) that i doooo nooooot caaaaare! riddle me this: i like spoon. why on earth wouldn’t i like a band that has different songs that sound very similar to spoon’s?? refusing to like a band “on principle” or for “philosophical reasons” is truly the dumbest shit i’ve ever heard. i feel like i’m taking crazy pills. long story short: i kind of lost interest in them after the first album, but the first album is so good! i still listen to it regularly.

the fictions

omg, i miss the fictions so much and there is absolutely no trace of their songs on the internet aside from this one—at least i have a bunch of songs on my old laptop. sunny, LA indie pop with a cheeky sense of humor (they literally had an innuendo-filled song called “the handjive” which included the lyrics “can i get a handjiiiiive, can i get a handjiiive from you?” also, it was soooo weird—except not really because this is my life we’re talking about, after all—like 10 years ago i was watching sixteen candles and tweeted my favorite line from the movie, “sofa city, sweetheart.” and then a one-man band called sofa city sweetheart saw it and we became internet friends….and then i realized HE USED TO BE IN THE FICTIONS! the universe is absolutely wild, folks.

protokoll

boston’s own!! my memories are choppy because it’s been so long, but i remember that the lead singer worked at the emerson bookstore (where i went to school) and i was buying my books and freaking out because i was so into them at the time. and then i don’t really know how it transpired, but my friend and i hung out drinking warm beer with them in their van one night in front of bill’s bar, and one of the band members played this crazy song called “i do dream you” by an italian band, jennifer gentle, which i still love? it’s all a blur at this point, honestly. this song rules though.

sahara hotnights

is there...is there a band that still makes music that sounds exactly like sahara hotnights' 2004 album kiss & tell? because i've been looking and i can't really find it. it's garage rocky, it's power poppy, it's vaguely swedish...which makes sense because that's where these lovely ladies are from.

the kinison

thiiiiis is how you do post-hardcore. the kinison always struck me as very dark, but something about them was so compelling to me after my friends and i happened upon them at warped tour in 2004. screaming is usually hit or miss for me, but it just really works for them, i think in part due to the catchy choruses.

the star spangles



best CD i ever bought at wal-mart. i remember thinking they were british because...don't they seem british? they're just new yorkers, though. i'm a sucker for anything reminiscent of '77 punk, and their debut album bazooka!!! is a hard-hitting, punchy collection of tunes that still hits that spot for me.

the mooney suzuki

so underrated and so much fun! i'd much rather a band be unapologetically silly, bombastic, and over the top like this than dreadfully boring and bland. taking yourself seriously is for squares and bumps on logs. plus, "turn me on and turn me up and turn me loose?!" pure poetry. I. AM. ALIVE. AND. AMPLIFIIIIED!

morningwood

and speaking of over the top...my first introduction to this band was at a free concert in 2006 at vassar college, when they inexplicably opened for talib kweli, and it still stands out as one of the most memorable live performances by a lead singer I've ever seen. vocalist chantel claret absolutely owned the stage, and at one point brought a random dude from the audience up and stripped him down to his skivvies for their song "take off your clothes." it was funny, it was kinda sexy, it was totally wacky, and i loved it. i feel like she also rode a toy pony at one point, maybe? good stuff. fun fact: she went on to play mickey's friend shaun on the netflix show love.

rock 'n' roll soldiers



if there's a better lyric than "we're the cold hand slidin' down your warm shirt," i don't want to hear it. okay, there are probably better lyrics, but that's a darn good one. i'm pretty sure that during the summer of 2005, i got into my car after every awful 5am-11am shift at dunkin' donuts and cranked this tune via mix CD for the 10-minute ride home. i was a motherfuckin' rock 'n' roll soldier ringing up crullers and coolattas, man!